Meeting with a family lawyer for the first time can be daunting—whether you’re navigating a separation, parenting arrangements, or financial settlements. But showing up prepared can make a world of difference. It can reduce your stress, save you money, and help your lawyer provide you with clearer, more practical advice from the outset.
At BBV Legal, we aim to take some of the pressure off with a helpful online tool that lets you get started from the comfort of home. Below, we break down how to prepare for that crucial first meeting and what you can expect along the way.
Step 1: Use the Online Tool to Get a Head Start
Before your initial appointment, you can use BBV Legal’s confidential online questionnaire to outline your situation. It’s user-friendly, private, and obligation-free.
By answering a few key questions online, you help your lawyer build a profile of your matter. That means when you sit down for your first appointment, your lawyer isn’t starting from scratch—they’ve already reviewed your case and are ready to dive into meaningful advice. It saves time, keeps costs down, and ensures you get value from every minute of that initial consultation.
Step 2: Understand What the Meeting Involves
Your first appointment costs $440 (including GST) and includes:
- Tailored legal advice based on your specific situation.
- A roadmap of the next steps you should consider.
- An overview of your rights and options moving forward.
This isn’t a general chat—it’s a focused, strategic session to give you clarity and confidence.
Step 3: Get Your Documents in Order
To keep legal costs down and make the most of your appointment, it helps to gather relevant documents ahead of time. These might include:
- Bank statements
- Tax returns
- Business or property records
- Superannuation details
If you’re unsure where to start, your accountant is often the first port of call—they can usually provide financial records in electronic form.
Disclosure of documents is a legal obligation in family law matters, and being organised early can significantly reduce future costs.
Step 4: Know Your Legal Pathways
Your lawyer will discuss the best course of action for resolving your matter. This could include:
- Negotiation or mediation to reach agreement without going to court
- Consent Orders for formalising an agreement
- Binding Financial Agreements for clear separation of financial ties
- Litigation if all else fails, though this is generally a last resort
Pre-action procedures may apply if you’re seeking a financial settlement after a relationship breakdown. However, in urgent cases (like family violence or risk of asset loss), your lawyer may advise bypassing these steps.
Step 5: Ask About Fixed Pricing
One of the biggest concerns clients have is legal costs. BBV Legal doesn’t charge by the hour—instead, we offer fixed pricing so you know exactly what you’re paying for. After your first meeting, if you choose to proceed, we’ll provide a fixed price for the next stage of work so there are no nasty surprises.
Step 6: Keep Communication Open and Honest
Be upfront with your lawyer. The more they know, the better they can protect your interests. Don’t worry about being judged—our team has years of experience in family law and is here to support you, not to criticise.
Remember, it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed during this time. Your lawyer is there to help make sense of the legal process and guide you toward the best possible outcome.
Final Thoughts
Your first meeting with a family lawyer is more than just an introduction—it’s your opportunity to get solid, practical advice and begin taking control of your future. With the right preparation and a clear understanding of the process, you can walk into that first appointment feeling informed, confident, and empowered.
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